Thanks TT. I'm sure I need to move out, just conflicted about the timing as you can see.

Definitely, caring for my child takes priority- in fact, she's a main reason I'm struggling with this decision. She'll be shaken up at some point no matter what, so I don't know if it matters if I do it sooner rather than later. And in terms of custody, I want to make sure we have something in place that is best for her, and that I choose an apartment that is in her best interests, too. Believe me, it'd be a lot simpler to just pick up and go if I didn't have a child! But thank god I have her.


-NB

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