Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Originally Posted By: CPCajun
My question is how slow to go? I thought the gesture to leave something when we left and when she got back from her trip would be a good thing to do.

We will be separated(physically) for 10 days. I do intend to send her pics from vacation of me and the kids showing we are having a good time. I thought this would be good catnip.


It's hard to say, CPC. It's like Potter Stewart once said, "I can't define pornography, but I know what it is when I see it."

If you were only off by a LITTLE, I doubt any of us would have said anything. You went into full-blown romantic PURSUIT mode; way too much.

Maybe a funny/sexy "Shoebox" card, with a simple "Be safe and have a good time!" ???

Puppy
I see. I didn't pick out the "good" love coupons. I know they would be too much too soon. I guess I should of specified what it was. It was one for Whatever you want , whenever you want. I thought it would be appropriate, as it doesn't state anything sexual. It leaves the whatever up to W. It is her decision on what she wants. It could be something as simple as cleaning the house for the week.

Last edited by CPCajun; 07/14/10 06:13 PM.

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