I would have H tell the kids. Do not speak for him. This is his decision. If he wants to stay while he finds a place let him stay on the couch.
It will be hard tonight, I recall the night we told the kids. Granted I had a 5 &2 yo and the 5yo really didn't understand, but it was hard just the same.
Do not break down in front of your kids, they need to see you as a strong woman. Breathe often and know you WILL be OK, because you will be. I know this from experience.
good luck, gr8
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