Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[DownNotOut...yet]

Let me put it this way QS... supposing she does go through with the divorce and pursues someone else... can you see her making that work LONG TERM?

Or can you see her crashing and burning with dissappointment and dissillusionment and hitting the internet sex road AGAIN for an answer?

Or you could stop worrying about her altogether and realize it is not a contest and you can start getting busy being the best you, you can be.

Think back to when you were dating. You would have instantly dumped any chick that gave you one tenth the amount of crap you have put up with recently.

It all sounds so cliche but getting to that point will save you whether she stays or goes.

BTW, I have not heard about you going out with your friends, lifting some weights, riding your mountain bike, starting a drunken fight at a ball game...what have you done for yourself lately?

One of my first steps to getting back some hand was when I went out all day with friends. I was totally busy and actually forgot my situation at home. I realized, I went all day without her, without seeing her or thinking about her. It was the best day I had in more than a year. I actually didn't even want to go home. Then I new, life could be OK either way. Get some hand.