Let me put it this way QS... supposing she does go through with the divorce and pursues someone else... can you see her making that work LONG TERM?

Or can you see her crashing and burning with dissappointment and dissillusionment and hitting the internet sex road AGAIN for an answer?

YOU are GROWING UP... she's NOT... SHE will always be miserable until she grows up...

This isnt' about money, its about getting a life you can be proud of... She wont' have one if she bails here... YOU WILL...