Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

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In all of this what really sucks is thst she seems to be going to come out on top. She makes more than me and could afford to BUY a condo if we sold the house. I'd have to rent a crappy apt.

She has this huge outpouring of support from everyone. And I look like the bad guy. She stays so outwardly positive that it is hard to imagine she's hurting as bad as everyone says. Anytime she feels bad she calls someone.

You guys are right. I am too reactionary. I have no idea how to let go of the fear of things turning out better for her than me. I didn't choose this yet it feels like she wins no matter what. And she does it all with a smile on her face.