Now now, let's not beat ourselves up, sorry, you know I can get a little blunt sometimes.
No, you can't do anything about her bill short of a subpeona, that's if your response to her petition for dissulution is adultry, but I'm sure since you have no hard evidence of any kind, your L advised you to just go with the extreme and repeated acts of mental creulty mumbo jumbo.
Actually, WI is a no fault state. It doesn't matter one ounce who did what. Affairs, mental cruelty, whatever. It doesn't matter. All you do is go to court and say "We have irreconcilable differences." Then you split everything 50/50, and the wage earner pays child support and maintenance.
It's that simple.
So you think I could get into legal trouble for setting up a new password on her phone account? I would send the password text to my D's phone, they are on a shared plan, so my W wouldn't know about it. That is what I did last time, but she figured it out and changed the password after I confronted her with the evidence. She actually told me that the way I got the phone records was "underhanded"! That from a cheater! I said me underhanded? What about what you are doing?
I really don't think she is using it to contact him, but I could be wrong.
Now I think I sound like others here who are in denial about their spouses A's. I think she may still have feelings for him, but I don't think they are in contact anymore.....
