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[ClingingToHope]

That just ... sucks. Has he ever tried counseling? If he makes a move towards you again then perhaps you give him a condition -- counseling or no more physical stuff.

I've been watching you and Buffet to see how you handle a possible reconciliation. It just has to be sooo hard.

The other day a friend asked if there was any hope and I gave them the tired -- well, we're still married and hope doesn't really die until one of us dies.

Then I thought about it. What if STBXW showed up and said she made a mistake and wanted to work on things. What would I need to give it a shot.

In my case ... she could never go see her best friend in her little town alone again, ever.

I'd need the passwords for her email, FB and Blackberry.

She'd have to go to marriage counseling for a minimum of six months.

We'd have to take Dave Ramsey's Financail Peace University Class together. No way I want to step back on the Financial Titanic.

But that's me and I doubt it's a conversation we'll ever have.

I'll be praying for you.