Now now, let's not beat ourselves up, sorry, you know I can get a little blunt sometimes.
No, you can't do anything about her bill short of a subpeona, that's if your response to her petition for dissulution is adultry, but I'm sure since you have no hard evidence of any kind, your L advised you to just go with the extreme and repeated acts of mental creulty mumbo jumbo.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11