You know . . . now that I have proof that everything I thought was a lie WAS a lie . . . I can see why the affair busting techniques here are recommended. Hard to act so strongly when there's doubt, but I get it now.
And THAT is why I ALWAYS advise people to get good, independent intel!!!
When I read back at the detailed journal that I kept during my sitch, I am struck by how many times I was able to correct myself, from doing something potentially damaging, based on what she TOLD me was the "truth." Then my intel would reveal otherwise, and so I would act wisely, and with discernment.
