Don't listen to his spew re: telling other people. He's the one who said he was done. Does he think no one will ever figure out you two divorced?? Or is he just mad that you're telling people the truth about the causes for the split?
Either way, you are not being selfish in confiding in people and getting support. I know you know this but I just wanted to reiterate it.
He chose the actions so he chose the consequences. End of story.
Did you finish reading Not Just Friends? If not, do it. There is a section in the end about moving forward alone. You still need to process everything that's happened and do the work to ensure you are healthy for your next R.
Last edited by pearlharbr; 07/14/1004:04 PM.
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