OH so that is what that was...I will assume the effects lingered into the next day?
So presently I am killing a little time before I go to my custody class...I have my outfit ready! Nothing too dressy but still a cute top! (I hope) Too bad I totally need a hair cut! Oh well.
Stbxh arrived to get S but I wasn't all done up...it's funny because I have a real date, and realistically I knew I would have time to get ready after he picked up S. Before, I was "being mysterious" and would be dressed up on purpose.
Oh and I am getting some replies from my co-workers. 3 people just said "I am so sorry. Please let me know if you need babysitting or if you want to talk." One person said "were there problems for awhile? Sorry to pry." haha!
I am not going to say anything for now...just reply "thank you for your concern! I appreciate your support."
Oh and I got a package addressed to stbxh!!! I was so annoyed at first but I texted him "yougot a package..." and he said "it's probably from my mom for S. You can open it if you like."
I SHOULD HAVE JUST SAID "ok thanks" but I said "ok thanks. WHy doesn't your mom just address it to S? haha!" The reason why I added "haha" was because I thought it would have sounded so bitchy without something at the end. So he just wrote back "who knows?????" I COULD have said "why doesn't she send it to YOUR house?" but I refrained.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I COULD have said "why doesn't she send it to YOUR house?" but I refrained.
You can ask her when you call to thank her! Ya know MIL, stbx's mail will soon be forwarded increasing the liklihood of things getting lost! Wouldn't want that to happen! Especially to such a nice ____________.!
Have fun after you get through with the class!!
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
A LOT to report...good info from the class and the date went really well! But I am about to pack up and head out to visit my friend and get S' pics taken. So will need to post more details later.
1)we talked for 6 hours, and share many common interests. That wasn't supposed to happen!
2)I kissed him good night! Tickly goatee (men--why???? just shave that face!)
3)just interesting--he said "women these days" (he IS 44, lol!) are too aggressive and possessive. He didn't seem to care for the sexually forward attitude although he wasn't chauvanistic. He did like it that I asked him out though and was really surprised. Well I wasn't the one who moved in for the kiss (I never am--won't initiate the kiss first and won't express my feelings first!)I did let him know that I was not looking for anything serious but didn't mean I was going around sleeping with a bunch of men...it was tricky actually! I thought if I just said "I am casually dating right now" he would get it but he pressed me for details.
4) I was asleep with the doorbell rang this morning for stbxh to drop off S...and I could still smell zoobrew's cologne on me! HA!
5)I am dying to communicate with him but I won't!
ok gotta run!
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me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Just because you asked, you can feel the effects of an eclipse 3 days on either side. So yes even today. There is also a Grand Cross coming which is supposed to amount to HUGE changes all over the place, not just on a personal level. So lots of stuff will be happening.
Glad you had a fun date.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
2)I kissed him good night! Tickly goatee (men--why???? just shave that face!)
Don't hate.
Glad to see you getting out there and not curling up and dying.
I saw our post on my thread and was wondering how one hooks up on FB from these posts w/o giving too much info.
Thanks for follow my sitch and posting , I will in return do the same. TC, gr8
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
