It's unworkable. She needs to fix her. You are right. She doesn't FEEL it for me.
The only time she does is when she's trying to pursue me, making me out as her great savior. I don't want her to FEEL it for me that way. She has never in her life been able to FEEL it for a man unless he was her current obsession. I don't want to worry that my woman's feelings for me are so fragile as to disintegrate when I show some interest in her, like asking her to do things with me, or saying yes when she asks me. That's no way to live.
I agree with you I need to step way back while she does whatever she's doing, and continue living my life and maybe even go back to dating other women. Maybe I'll find one that doesn't drive me crazy!
This is reality and yet so many people choose to fight reality.
She is happiest when she is pursuing a man.
Yet you don't want to let her chase you, she enjoys those feelings, she derives a lot of personal satisfaction from having those feelings, she is emotionally driven, she's an emotional being, she lives for those feelings, they make her feel good but you don't like the fact that she has to feel that way about you?!
Do you want a man for a companion or a woman?
She's a woman.
She wants a man.
Be that man or let someone else be that man for her.
And guess what, you start dating again and remove yourself from the "easy to catch list" and guess what, she's going to start having those feelings again for you, I pretty much guarantee it.
