Near WAW with EA - almost textbook sich

[doing my best]

Puppy in regards to MC she is pro-marriage and only believes marriages should end if there is abuse. However she has discussed sep possibilities with W and myself seperately and feels that if done right can be healthy but is ONLY a step if D is definitley in the picture.

W does bristle when I bring that word up and does not even think that we are close to that. So....who knows. really looking forward to joint session today at 4 PM EST. Will post more after that.

My brother-in-law who has known both of us very well for 22 years and is psych teacher feels that W must have support system guiding her. Does not feel that she is strong enough to do this on her own. I do know it is not MC and she tells me that she has not told her sister all of the story. So yet another nod towards old BF....

So 2 possibilities here....she either really has broken contact and is just hold a "candle" for old flame, living off memories and fantasy created before bomb dropped. Or...she is still in contact with him and he is her support system. Emboldening her and confusing her feelings and emotions.

Thanks you everyone.

DMB