OK....wow....got it. Puppy thanks.

New mindset to work on....

No more separation talk with me telling her that I will accept her decision. Cannot fuel this fantasy esp since we cannot afford it. Will tell her that really is off the table and need no need to discuss.

No more "fixing" her. Was not my intention. Was tring to offer solution alternatives to give her some space. Did not realize what I was doing here with fixing. Thought it would be helpful.

DMB


M:18 T:22
S 15
S 10
D9

Bomb Dropped 5/22/2010
EA with old college BF discovered and Exposed - 5/25/2010
MC begins 5/25/2010
EA contact cut off 5/28/2010
Current - DBing - 180's and joint MC sessions