This is the #1 thing that people do wrong around here when they enter the reconciliation phase. They move too fast. As soon as their formerly-wayward spouse shows the slightest sign of wanting to work on things, they go all "melty-man" and start the pursuit again. Check out Futureunknown's latest thread for but one example.
To "stick," this phase has to be done verrrry slowly, and the formerly-betrayed spouse has to allow their formerly-wayward spouse to continue to pursue THEM. You need to convey an air of "I'm still not sure what I think," maintain all of your GAL things that you were doing when she was wayward, and let her earn her way back.
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The best part is cats love to hunt, stalk and pounce. It's especially fun when they play with their prey. The time for the dog to chase the cat will come.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
