opt,

Sorry, you had a bad evening.
No expectations.
Give H space.
Love from a distance.
Patience.

These are a few things you need to get through this. And here is a quote I got from someone else's post this morning:

Quote:

If you guys are going to get to your Golden Anniversary you can afford to give him a couple of years to get through this and come out the other side a better person.





We all get tired of the bull, it is normal. TGod we have the BB to vent and ask for a shoulder!

Hope you are feeling better today!

It's a long hard road! But I agree, let your H push his own darn cart! LOL

Deb


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