Sorry, you had a bad evening. No expectations. Give H space. Love from a distance. Patience.
These are a few things you need to get through this. And here is a quote I got from someone else's post this morning:
Quote: If you guys are going to get to your Golden Anniversary you can afford to give him a couple of years to get through this and come out the other side a better person.
We all get tired of the bull, it is normal. TGod we have the BB to vent and ask for a shoulder!
Hope you are feeling better today!
It's a long hard road! But I agree, let your H push his own darn cart! LOL