Originally Posted By: guinevere
To answer MrBond's question, this is with the guy I reconciled with almost three years ago.


Well, I will say that since reconcilling with my (x)W, everything is new again, including everything that happens behind closed doors. She, much like you previously would not have let me any where near that portion of her.

I don't know, maybe it's the whole notion that we missed everything about each other and realize there are things we have never experienced about each other (in all areas of the previous relationship) but it's like she is building up to actually trying that route someday (even bought one of those "his&hers lotion kits). Previously, now way in hell, wouldn't let me go anywhere near her behind in anyway shape or form. Even "doggy style" was a rarety. And on that subject, I will say that at least in my case, that position is great for stamina and I can safely guarentee each and everytime we go that route, she won't be walking away unhappy, if you catch mydrift. Matter of fact half the time things aren't getting her going, she'll lead the way (damn got turned on jsut thinking about it smile ).

Again, I think it helps to remember that everything is new again. And when things are new, well, you want and do new things. I mean, did you not reconcille because THIS is the person you WANT to be with? I know I did. And I know if we were to have the same old habits all the time, well, what more can I say other than, BORING, and I should have gone the other route when I was at the crossroad of reconcille or move on.



Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11