If she doesn't want to work on the marriage then let her go. Come up with a plan (finances, custody) after discussing with a L. Help her pack, agree this isn't working. Stop talking about your M. You are trying to fix her - Einstein. STOP!

Get ahead of her on wanting out, watch her change when you stop pursuing. Never chase a cat. Let the cat come to you.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.