I have been doing my best to act "as if" about her returning to our room. But for the last two morning I have returned to giving her a goodbye kiss on the cheek before I leave.(she is sleeping).
My understanding of "As If" is acting in a way that promotes a desired outcome, even when our feelings are otherwise. In my situation, I Act As If I'm a H, even though I'm having my doubts and mistrust.
Your situation is ripe with potential. Do your part to move things along (positive leadership). Make it safe for her to be more intimate.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
