Making progress and reconnecting.....ayieee

[CPCajun]

I do...er ..we do.
We started the Geocaching with friends and it is working great. Not only does it bond us, but I do an 180 at the same time. I usually keep to myself and did not like to socialize with W friends. Now I am doing both. Win/Win.
Also I am finding other stuff we can do without the kids. Recently we have been going on walks together. When we do go I try to 'cut up' and make W smile and laugh.

Slowly I am finding ways with W and with the kids. I understand the restraints that kids can put on our relationship. Doing things without the kids is what we need,though difficult.