I know and I get it.

But I had REAL trust in her parents. At the beginning they were SO AGAINST the divorce. Now they are tired of me and just want to see their daughter out of the marriage. The exposure talks, the talking about the marriage, all seemed to have pushed them away. OR my wife has run AMAZING counter exposure and blew me out of the water. Either way, It sucks.

That hurts ALOT. It appears now that I am the only one fighting for the marriage.

She has so many friends and family that are holding her up through this and telling her that this will be OK and she will be happy. Even her parents are saying that this is the best decision.

That really hurts too. It feels like it is me against the world, and the world is screaming to her "divorce him".

But I WILL NOT let her get the upper hand. I have to stop worrying about what everyone thinks.

I know this will push everyone away and they will scream louder to divorce me. But if you guys say this is the ONLY chance I have, then I need to man up.

Puppy, was your sitch this bad? Were her parents telling her to get out, get a condo, and get divorced?


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed