Thanks Punkin. I have my moments, too, so know exactly what you mean.
As far as fixing a plate for ow, ah, that's not going to happen. lol. The only way I'd ever fix any dish that was for the ow would be for the one to pass after her funeral. Hmmmm, wonder if she'd extend the same courtesy to me?
Anyway, it will be interesting to see if H will even eat much. It may be uncomfortable for him here. He's already told D he will be late because he has to work. I know better than anyone that he could very well not work, especially for a special occasion. All of our family and friends will be here and H, and I'm only guessing by his actions, is feeling either guilty or ashamed at what he's done. Maybe it's as simple as he just can't stand any of us anymore, or because the ow gets pissed, depressed and resentful of the time he spends here. Who knows? I'm just not going to waste time thinking about it.
I'm just going to cook up a storm and look good and be gracious and friendly to everyone.
After all, it's D's special day and I'm very proud of her accomplishments. She never let the ball drop, even after the bomb.
