Thanks IDU. I will respond more later, but very quickly, I forgot to mention that I also told her last night to start getting her figures ready for the house so we can figure out if I can buy yer out or if we will have to sell it. More financial reality.

Sometimes I think if I were just nice enough, not needy and pursuing, that this would work itself out before the D is final. I know you are all going to say that won't work, but I sometimes feel that way.