You sound like you are doing fantastic. I have my moments, and then I have other moments, you know. Great about having H coming over to eat your cooking. Make sure you make all his homemade favorites. Wrap up any left overs and send them back with him. Make a plate for the OW!LOL I've wondered if my H misses any of the special things I used to cook for him? Maybe your OW and my OW have the same special chef - Arby's.