My BFF recommended that I ask my H about the match.com stuff. She said I don't have to be all mad and aggressive about it but that I should let him know that I know and don't think it's too cool. What do you guys think?
He says he's here trying to work on things with me, even tho it might not be to my standards. I should probably ask him what kind of standards allow for multiple affairs,signing up for dating services, and perusing personal ads,when you're married. If I don't let him know I know about it, he may meet someone and get involved again like he did before. How would that help us to get back on track?
And yes, it's 3:15 a.m.--tornados are still coming in all around. I may have to run for the basement.