Alright . . . even tonight, my H claims that OW is "just friends" in a response to my request that he not expose dd to her. Goodness sakes, does anyone believe this? So my friend and I went on a little drive . . . to my H's apt. complex . . . found both OW's car and his car there. Prob not a good decision, but my friend left notes (in her handwriting) "Just friends?" on both of their cars . . . hopefully will freak them out.
I haven't exposed to her parents and I think I might . . . here is my letter. Thoughts? Yeah, I'm angry tonight. Hate to operate from a position of anger, but . . .
Dear Mr. and Mrs. ________, You may be aware that your daughter, ____________, is dating my husband, _______________. _______ and _______work together at ________________ in ________ Beach.
It is true that my husband and I are separated at the moment, but I want to make it clear to you that the separation occurred because of his relationship with your daughter. My husband _____ and I have a four year old daughter whose home is about to be broken up as a result of your daughter’s relationship with my husband.
I had suspected their relationship for a period of time given the high volume of phone calls shown on our phone records and the fact that my husband was having her over to our house when I was not there. My husband denied the affair until 6/5 when some of my coworkers observed them kissing at _____ off of ______. He admitted that he was kissing her, but claims they are still “just friends.” Although my husband claims that they are still “just friends,” I am convinced that they are now living together at an apartment complex at ______________________.
I’m not sure what I hope to accomplish through this letter, except to make sure you are aware that this is not a relationship that started after my husband was separated. It is why we are separated. Also, if you are so inclined, I would appreciate it if you could encourage your daughter to do the moral thing and leave my husband alone. And, if she won’t do that, I would appreciate it if you would encourage her to stop playing mom to my daughter. It’s just wrong.
I am happy to answer any questions you might have.
