Be careful when you compare you're insides to someone else's outsides. It just doesn't work.
A friend once said to me:
If everyone took your life crap and put in a bag, then threw it in a big pile in the middle of the room, and everyone got to see it all, you'd be scrambling to get your bag back.
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