W came back from picking up some stuff I asked for that she left at a friends.
During bathtime, Calla poured a cup of water on her BBerry. And the itdidn't work. (Here's an idea,don't take it into bathtime, you addict. I'll remind her tomorrow now that thedrama is over, "I will remind you that texting in the presence of Calla or I is disrespectful. Perhaps the water incident was a nice warning"
So, she aske 'What do I do"
I told her to get the battery out and don't plug it in. Dry it. It could take overnight but it's all I know'
I said you could look it up on the web to see if yoycan get the faceplate off and dry it faster
So she does and askes for my electronics toolset.
To make a long story short, I took the phone apart for her and after an hour it was dry. She reassembled and it work. She said 'Yippee, it works" with a tone I recognized n the old days. The words that should have follwed were 'Thank yo very much" Yeah, the oold days.
Did I help her and get drawn into her drama? Yes. But I NEEDED that phone to work for the text. I don't know why she needed it because he's going, too. I'm going to hang out near the place they hang out and see if I can catch them together to make sure they're in one vehicle.
Anyway, it really bothers me that she looks and sounds like the girl I married other than the disconection.
And D acted out again when W left the house for a cigarette. that's twice. And my presence doesn't fix it. My throughts are that W spends so little quality time with D that the slightest absence causes a freak out.
Ready for tomorrows text? Not really. But I have to do something before she's completely gone. If she isn't already.
But I need to generate my self-respect and stop her hiding and lying.
I want everyobe to know that I admit my 50% of the marriage problem, but the only reson this family is being destroyed is because of an affair. And, MAYBE, if she stops it, I'll consider accepting her back. But that will be MY decision.
