- I have a job and health benefits - I have my child - I'm pretty healthy - I have a good support system - I've got a pretty nice car that should be reliable for awhile - I've got the DBers and alt friends to write to - I'm not sinking into a depression right now - I have - for now at least- a nice house to live in - my child is doing fine so far - I've got a life and activities outside the house - I've acted with dignity and held myself to a higher standard of behavior throughout this, which I'll never regret.