Well I thought I would just let anyone who is interested know what has become of me. I couldn't hold myself together and keep the info to myself. After reading more of the texts (I know I shouldn't have) I was so disgusted. This women has such a trucker mouth...she really is trash. The stuff she was writing to him I can't even imagine doing or saying. It disgusting and then I found the kicker of all texts. I hope this was fantasy but it involved them having sex and her holding my daughter while they are doing it.
Oh YES!
My daughter is involved in their sexual fantasy!!!!!!!! WTF!!!!!
I want to kill him.
I confronted him and he finally finally confessed!!! But all that loser cares about is her. I had to go to the point of showing him the file on the computer though b/c he still wouldn't fess up. I have made copies so I know that if I need to use this I will be able to. Quite obviously there is nothing left to repair.
I actually still did give him one last chance. He told me he would do whatever I wanted just don't hurt the OP. I told him he could repair our life and marriage. He returned with he couldn't do that and that if we stay together we will be unhappy and he can't bear to see me miserable.
He again told me that he respects me for the person I am and for being D's mother but that there is nothing there. He doesn't love me as a lover...he tried but nothing is left. He now knows what it is to be happy being with OW.
It has been a huge blow to me but i am no longer willing to fight. I can't compete with OW and I don't want to.
OBTW she is his employee. At his company this is immediate dismissal and when I called his work way back and his coworker told me he suspected an affair he was right and right on the money with who.
It is so disgusting. I think he might have actually had sex with her at work on the premises.
I am so dying to just send the messages to his work and get them both fired but I won't b/c I will need him to pay support for our D.
So there will be no more DBing for me. Stick a fork in me....I'm done!!
M=42 H=51 Common-law 6yr Children: 11yr old daughter (previous marrIage) 6yr old son Bomb dropped January 2013
