So I've done the revisions. I'll present them for signature.
Tomorrow morning, when I see they have left, I'll send am interruptus text.
I'll move my non-necessary possessions out.
I'll speak with the owner at their work
I'll call her mom and aunt.
I'll clean the house and call some realtors.
I'll have family over Saturday for a little get together.
I'll see if I can get to his parents
Q: should I confront W and OM before I go to the rest of their world? Or pre-emptive strike?
I'm having confidence issues as I'm not so sure I'd take her back if the A ended. My motivation for ending the A is to get her thinking clearly in order to properly choose Divorce or Reconcile.
I'm fairly certain that I'd entertain it if she came around but I'm so P'd at her for what she is doing it'll be really hard to connect to her.
And taking her back? What does THAT say about me? Other than I was serious about "better or worse". .
Will that be enough for me?
I gues I'm not sure if I'm motivated enough to care whether she comes back or not. Her future will likely be miserable. I'll feel like I'm "saving" her and I can't say she deserves my help at this moment.
The disrespect and selfishness she is displaying is numbing.
