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If you search Romeo you won't be disappointed yes that much is probably true...but when you find this Romeo only the higher powers can help you
Oh wii! we talked about it before remember? alt is what your D16 can't be without for more than a few hours...
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
I was hoping to fall asleep earlier tonight since I could barely get myself out of the bed this morning. I'd just fallen asleep until I got a barrage of text messages...from stbxw. Jeez...
"DD said she doesn't want to go to camp tomorrow. She said it was too hot there today. She said she might go back thu or Fri.
Also we found our missing cat tonight. Mostly eaten by coyotes in the field by t playground. She is really sad about it. I told her he is in heaven. God needed him early to help him with projects."
Oh no! they just got the two cats and she only got to spend a day with them until she came over to my house. I felt really bad and just replied with:
"Yeah it was hot today and I was hoping DD was drinking plenty of water there today and staying hydrated.
I'm sorry about the cat, I didn't know it was missing"
Then she replied with even more bad news:
"She did drink lots of water but it was still damn hot today so she just wants to stay at school. Yeah this was a bad weekend. I went to [city] to see [ex roommate] cuz her condo had a fire, everything burned on the first floor and the dogs died of smoke inhalation upstairs. And I left so fast that I left one of the windows open and the cat slipped out by pushing the screen out. That happened on Sun. So we found him today. Sucks.
I haven't told DD about the dogs yet so pls don't say anything. She couldn't take it after seeing the cat today."
Oh man...I feel so bad. I haven't responded to the more detailed text I'm thinking I'll just email her tomorrow saying 'I'm so sorry to hear about your roommates dogs and the cat. I don't think DD needs to know about the dogs for now anyway or perhaps even in the future. Just say they went to live with [ex roommate's husband] or something."
So tomorrow when I pick her up from school I'll have to be extra sensitive around her.
You know, these sort of things are what I'm always afraid of and I know they're accidents but I've always been the worry wart and believe in the motto 'be prepared' whether it's earthquake, a break-in, a fire etc. In my long freeway commute I also see fatal accidents some that happened right in front of my eyes...it makes you wonder if all this BS we go through in life is even worth worrying about when life is so short.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
It's good that she filled you in. Stuff happens. That's life.
I'd respond with something like "Yes. That's too bad."
But that's me and STBXW and I are being as short with each other as possible. It may be because D is heating up or this may be the permanent dynamic. We'll see.
What is going on with the D in your case. If there were developments then I've missed them.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
Yeah, I could barely sleep last night after that but I resisted being 'available' to her. I typed up the response last night and sent it this morning: "I won't, I don't think DD needs to know. I'm so sorry for all that happened, that's horrible"
She took the time to explain (I'm sure she wanted to tell it to someone who was the resuer in the past so kinda self-serving) so I could at least sympathize?
She didn't respond nor did I really expect one.
As for D there are two things going on:
1. Opposing counsel said they'll take us to court on the school matter. So my attorney's preparing a response to that.
2. I'm asked to submit all the financial docs from 2007+ which took me a long time to gather- I have lots of accounts from transferring money and securities from one to the other over time. However, several accounts don't allow access to beyond 24 months or even 12 months in some cases. So the paralegal's pushing me to contact these banks and ask for those docs. I'm like no...this is all I have access to period. I don't have a problem giving STBXW access to these accounts if there's a question. If they want something older that I don't have access to then they can get it themselves or show cause for them. I don't know...so that's a monkey on my back these days and we're running out of time. Then we have to set a mandatory pre-trial conference and then get a court date for trial.
I hate the legal BS...
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Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
OK actually she just texted: "It's ok. So are you ok picking DD up from school today?"
"It's ok??" really? and not something like "Thanks." ?
Last edited by StupidRomeo; 07/14/1006:22 PM.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
