It's the idea of loving the sinner and not the sin. He f*'d up now he has to deal with the consequences. Give him space when he needs it and if there is something you want to include him in on, then do it.
[--edited by dbmod: advertising] But instead of standing there and taking the hits, start dodging them and get out of his way. When you're not there to blame, he'll have no choice but to look inwards. Meanwhile, you can start doing those changes you mentioned that he had issues with about you.
It's going to take time. But at least things will be on your terms.
Last edited by dbmod; 12/07/1004:36 AM.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
