Oddly, she planned to stay here tonight. Mostly out of guilt for D.
She texted wherther she should make dinner. I said sure.
Then, she asks if she should pick up D from daycare. I said "Already done"
Then, over dinner, she goes into why she said ''Rules are rules. I said yes I did. Over Fathers Day.
So she goes on to say I can have her on the 24th as I requested but need to be back a day early. No problem.
I said please text it so I have it.
The she pulls the separation agreement out. She made some revisions (clearly not in her words) and has them ready to sign (somehow thinking a Sep Agreement frees her from guilt. We will only be signing, not filing. Not that it matters.)
I say "let me review the changes. I don't think we need to do this today."
But now I'm thinking I should get her autograph as there is nothing in there that can hurt me and, in fact, she included a cluase that legal counsel can be sought "if either parent believes Calla is in jepoardy" Her examples were drug addictio (I laughed internally at 'PEA')
I've removed the property section and simply sated "Until all documents and statements are presented, this Asset/Debt Section will remain empty and added as Addendum when required" (Leaves me room for the Excemption Bomb later)
I think today would be a good time to give the 'Letting Go" speech. Let her try to sleep on that one. Then drop the Interruptus while their travelling.
It was funny. I asked her about the Call atravelling thing she added and she started to cry. She thought I could just pop into the States undetected. I said "Why would I do that?" "I just have this feeling I'm gonna get screwed somehow" (no pun intended, I'm sure)
So, she's off to pick up a couple last minute items with D. I'm gonna make the changes and have the sheet and speech ready.
I hope to get second opinions ASAP or I''l do what I can and post later.
