Of course H can't do a simple exchange. With DS in the car with me, he leans in and says it will be 6-9 months for the no-fault divorce but as for at-fault there are a few options. I said I had nothing more to say on that subject and he replied that was not true. I said I told him I don't want it and I don't know what I'm going to do, that was all I had to say. He asked if I was going to get a lawyer, I told him that I don't know what I'm going to do. He said, more like stated, asking if I am purposely being as ambiguous and uncoooperative as possible.
Then he brought up therapy, said that after DS gets a few more sessions under his belt he thinks it would be a good idea to incorporate other people. I said if he wants to do that during his sessions with DS that's his choice but I didn't feel it was necessary. He said, almost incredulous, "You don't think other people impact your relationship with DS?" and I simply repeated I did not see the need to incorporate anyone else into DS's sessions.
He went to leave then ducked back into the car to ask why I'm in the bathroom every time he calls. I said that I've had an upset stomach and he made a "yeah right" sound so I told him I had my period and he knows how that upsets my stomach. (Hey, push me for an answer and I'll give it even though you may not like it.) He said this has gone on for longer than a period lasts and shut the door.
So now I'm home with DS cuddling while we watch Penguins from Madagascar and then it's off to bed for us.
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