Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

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I had a rough IC session tonight. My IC really pressed me about stuff, and it made it VERY hard.

But I came back to thinking about what Allen says about my WAW being so miserable.

Now it's completely true that she has alot of friends who support her, and that probably gets her through the day. But she probably is crying on the inside about this whole thing.

She has hope the AFTER the divorce there will be happiness. I have HOPE that DURING the divorce I will find happiness. I will find myself, and become stronger than I had ever imagined.

Alot different viewpoints I think. I actually got halfway done my home improvement project today and tonight. All that I need to do is paint.

So there is another question I have. I miss affection and closeness. There are a few girls definitely into me, and it's killing me not to be able to get close to them.

Is that the same paradigm of "escaping" as my WAW did when things were bad?