Originally Posted By: Allen A
I will warn you now, fighting for your marriage is NOT for the faint of heart or the timid of spine...

This is NOT easy and it can be painful... But its worth it... You will learn a LOT about yourself on the journey...



I second this. At the beginning of this I was a complete puddle. Not saying I am a man of steel yet, but I have my moments of real strength.

Basically your WAS is taking the EASY and QUITTERS route. YOU HOWEVER, are sucking it up and doing some HARD work.

The WAS "thinks" what they are doing is "hard". But they will be condemned to repeat the SAME mistakes over again.

Whether you succeed or not, you WILL NOT make the same mistakes again.

This is an absolutely brutal process. And that's what it is; a PROCESS. You get stronger as time goes on.

Just learn from the rest of us and where our snags were so you don't make the same mistake.

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed