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[awest1217]

We met in high school. I am a year ahead of him, although only two months older, because of IN laws and the fact you had to be 5 by June 1 when we started school. H's birthday was June 11 so he started a year behind me. We were both in band and I didn't like him his freshman/my sophomore year. Then the next year something changed. We started to hang out a bit during football season. Then during "homeroom" we could move around to get help from teachers. I was in 2nd year chem and my teacher told me he wouldn't help me until all the 1st year students were helped. In order to get my way and get help, I started to help the 1st year students. I went to a group of my neighbors and band friends which included H. After about 5 months of being friends and going out with groups, one of my friends encouraged H to ask me out on a date and we have been together ever since.

I really want to just drop off H's stuff, but they have no room at their house at all and I feel bad for H's "good" brother. The one who I am friends with because it will overtake his stuff even more, and he doesn't deserve it. MIL is a horder and has tons of junk and keeps getting more, plus now younger BIL's stuff from college until he starts again in the fall, "good" BIL's stuff because he is 25 and still living at home, plus all of their toys from growing up and all of her old teaching stuff, plus all kinds of other junk like tons of beaney babies, scrap book stuff, and the fact that she keeps enough food for a 7 person family when only 4 people live there and for a while only 3, and finally now all of H's stuff. I feel bad for "good" brother because he always tells me how he can't stand it and how H's stuff smells (some of the stuff he packed is nonperishable stuff, but it is still stinking).

I do like the family, but i also want to get rid of his stuff. I guess it is their problem and not mine. I would just have to tell them I am taking it. i will give him next week and then if he doesn't get it, I will have to call MIL and tell her I am going to drive it over. Very tough to do.