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Not knowing what the future will hold for me


No one does.

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He wants a skinny athletic younger woman to have children with. I'm not any of those things.


Two of those by choice, I'll point out. The age...ehhh...younger? Pffpt.

Look speaking as a guy who has battled weight all my adult life. You can either blast the skinny pretty people consol yourself that if God wanted you to be one of them he'd make ribs out of zero calories...or you can do something about it and improve your health.

Speaking as a chubby guy trying to be less chubby.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet