What do you mean by this? Quote: But they love you like a brother or cousin. The intimate love stuff is gone. When they get through this, they figure it out. Then things are left for both to grow and love even more again.
Here is what I can tell you from my experience. The wonderful closeness I feel with a woman and synergy that I feel when making love was definitely absent in those times. My wife and I were tight. She is not the person I married. Could not see that at first because my shocked nerves were fried. Later, (Months) I could sense her coming out of this at some brief moments. Not sure this is what you wanted. If you could be more specific on what you are asking I will try to explain more. I may be a little dense right now, but I will hopefully get better at this. If those brief moments were to return to her permanently, then I have something to grab hold of. That is what I believe is coming after she gets through this and we rebuild. The alien side does not possess these qualities. At least not with me. If anybody has had anything like this happen to them, I have not read much on that. I am just describing what happened to me. There are no guarantees. I have seen and experienced too much to quit now. I know at this point I am making a mistake to quit now.
