Yeah, STBXW will land on the moon IF she wants to...it's hard to get her to do anything if she doesn't want to. She'll start resenting it and holding a grudge without really saying or showing anything. It'll all come out as a surprise when she blows up.

Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope

It's really a shame. STBXW got down to a very firm size 2 after D11 was born and then down to a size 4 after D7. At the beginning of 2008, when everything died between us, she started gaining weight and the last I knew she's up to a size 16.


Is it really silly of me to not know what women sizes mean? I have no idea how little a size 4 is vs. a size 16- but I get the gist of it. Yeah I too noticed last time when we were separated STBXW had gained weight and she's a skinny girl. I think 120lbs at 5-6" if I remember correctly.

wii, yeah I hear you...that wouldn't be too smart.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again