I can relate to the "it's not you it's me" comment from my XW.

She also said "there is nobody" and the sex situation was exactly the same as yours. Not good.

End result is we could not divorce me fast enough. Seems that me keeping my vows for almost 23 years didnt count for squat to her.

And I found out two months after the divorce that she had been having an online love affair with her HS boyfriend from 36 years ago.

My point? There could very well be another man in your sitch. But he may not be local. Just food for thought.

Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me