24 y/o young wife walked away what to do

[MarkIII]

That is true there has been no fighting, Thats why Im in shock with the RO. I think it is aploy to keep me at bay from her and the cop friend for a bit. Fourtantly for me my older kids have been present all the time. The .5 % they were not we were in public places or sleeping together.. She was very open and communicating from June 8th until the 20th then it was like a total shut down mode. Now when I do get a chance to talk to her if her dad comes around in ear shot its talk to my attorney I can not talk to you. She had a real rough relationship with dad in the past and he helped us finance a truck we didnt make the payment a couple times and got behind (over a stupid business venture of ours).. Now I think she is feeling she owes this to daddy.. But I can not get past with anything right now. Courts are now pushing the visitation and I went to the required class divorce advocacy class last Saturday. Domestic Relations is looking and interviewing to determine visitation and such. I guess Im just stuck thinking it can be worked out when maybe it really cant. Cause she will have to able to change or seek help and she is not. I look back and when we started talking she was having a real rough time and her mom and dad were starting a bitter 3 yr divorce. She started talking to me and I guess I was her refuge from the pain and hurt and stuff, I tried to push her away due to age and my kids, but you know the male ego old guy nice young hot girl..Enough said... LOL... So it was probally set up for failure from the start.