How To Tell The Kids

[Ready2Change]

From another thread:

My wife just texted me wants to stop by and pick up bills and she's asking me "Do I care if she does this?"

What do I say?

"I have decided I will be handling the family finances right now." Then do it.

Wise words.

Maybe for you, "I have decided I will be handling the family finances right now. I would like a check from you for $XXX to cover your fair share of the joint expenses"

Then put on your rain coat as she spews.....

Then reply (VALIDATE) with "I am sorry you feel that way."