Thanks for your advice. I know I've contributed to where my M is today. That is why I've decided to stay with my H despite what he is putting me through. However I don't believe I have contributed to my H's A. This is a decision he had made due to a flaw in his character.
As part of my 180, I'm changing the way I interact with my H. I know I need to give him more positive feedback and reduce feedback that could be viewed as critical.
What do you mean by being there for my H? Should I encourage him to talk about it? I'm not sure if I could stay neutral while listening.
M 39 H 41 T9 M6 EA found Dec 09 Separated Apr to Jun 10 Currently in house separation
