New here, not sure where to start

[Jack_Three_Beans]

The satistics for 1st marriages ending in divorce are roughly half as in 50%.

Did you know that 2nd marriages ending in divorce are even higher?

And 3rd marriages higher still.


Now I am willing to be that there are a bunch of reasons for this...

Just as I am willing to bet that once you learn to give up it becomes that much easier to do so in the future. Betting that is right up there as one of the top 5 reasons, 2nd and 3rd marriages fail.


Comes a point in time when you have to look at the common denominator in why a realtionship fails.

Now...alot of folks here, they might not have 'saved' their 1st marriage or realtionship with the spouse that brought them here, but they sure as sure leanred not to quit and they learned what it takes to fight.

The folks here who roll up their sleves and work on themselves? I believe they...you know F-it. WE, are the ones who succeed more often than not in our next realtionship.

Think about Taylor.

Learn to fail or learn to fight. I am not saying you won't fail IF you fight, I am saying give it your all, quit only when you are spitting blood and have nothing left to give and even then make it so that you regret nothing and fade to black with a smile on your face in spite of it all.