Well....she did send him a message about leaving her alone. I know that and in fact when I discovered the depth of the contact I sent him a message too via FB. It was respectful but firm and I do know he sent a few more messages which she did not respond to.

Regarding the LBH script....you are so right. All I had to do was embrace and reflect....but I have my own issues that held back on affection. I am working through my own discovery on how to let go and live in the moment. With or without her I will need this.

Loose with the evidence....yes. But also at times contradicts what she is saying and how she is acting. Towards me. 3 Hour conversation with W last night based on more notes that I found. Will send an update when I get a chance. Had single MC appt today and will have our first joint session tomorrow. Have asked MC to help me get W to be honest with me.

Situation last night took a spiritual/soul/growth turn. Looking to map DB and WAW behaviors over this one. Think I have it but will share. The post will be good for those that have W's who are into soul and growth and deciding if R is provding it in that manner. Perhaps it is another metaphor for meeting emotional needs. Not sure. More later.

DMB


M:18 T:22
S 15
S 10
D9

Bomb Dropped 5/22/2010
EA with old college BF discovered and Exposed - 5/25/2010
MC begins 5/25/2010
EA contact cut off 5/28/2010
Current - DBing - 180's and joint MC sessions