New here, not sure where to start

[irishblessings]

ltaylor -
These same questions/doubts etc. have crossed my mind MANY times through the past few years - and you are right the Tiger syndrome or whatever is real - but Eric is right "better or worse" "sickness or health" - here's the deal

At one point - 3 years ago - I thought infidelity would be a dealbreaker. And then I had to look at my family, friends, extended family - basically OUR life - and I had to ask myself "does a handful of bad erase years of good?" - I even went to the point of calculating the total number of days/minutes etc. that we had been together and dividing it by the estimated "bad times" or "strays" - and guess what - the good far outweighed these moments. AND I had to own my own s**t - maybe my controlling was a betrayal of respect to him.

It is not easy - and it is not interpreted the same way by all - but for ME - this is who I am and what I am about - and it is the standard I want to model for my kids.

Who knows...maybe I am a fool - but I'll go down fighting:) You can do this! It is the good fight!