If you want even MORE hand you tell her on Sunday that you have had the weekend to think and you may have changed your mind about her moving in... and you will get back to her... sometime later in the week...
Great news dude.. Its a shame non-minitary doen'st deal with this in teh same aggressive manner...
If he was a civilian you would have NO RECORUSE but to suck it up!!!
I think he likley learned his lesson anyhow... I certainly hope you told them to HOLD the file open until further notice and that this may not be over you will keep them in the loop!
Why don't you host a poker game at your place this week while the wife is away, give you some practice...
You won't always have a great hand dude, and that's your kryptonite... you play too tight and she plays far looser than you do and usually wins most of the hands because of it...
Wow. She actually sent him a text today. I have no idea what it said, but she is STILL going after him.
OH AND GET THIS: Legal services called me today wanting to speak with me about......wait for it...wait for it....
POSSIBLE CHARGES AGAINST HIM.
I told them no, and they said that was fine but:
"If he EVER contacts her AGAIN, please let us know and we will file immediate charges against him".
So I now have another nuclear weapon against him should he try anything else. I mean we are talking an Article 32 hearing and EVERYTHING.
He apparently got a SEVERE dressing down from his CO. And then the CO referred it back to JAG. Then they called me.
She is really pathetic right now. Oh if moments like this could last where I feel like the one in complete power.
QuickSilver264,
That is a huge deal. Realize wifey is going to likely keep running for a while, because she is not wrong in her mind, you are.
Anyway, i don't want to say "good luck" - because it can come off negative, I would like to say you are doing well and I'm sure you have inspired someone.
You MAY want to let her mother know you let him off the hook for NOW if he lays off of your wife... It might score you some points on the home front...
That one's an iffy call.. I will leave the card on the table you can play it if you want...
I had a rough IC session tonight. My IC really pressed me about stuff, and it made it VERY hard.
But I came back to thinking about what Allen says about my WAW being so miserable.
Now it's completely true that she has alot of friends who support her, and that probably gets her through the day. But she probably is crying on the inside about this whole thing.
She has hope the AFTER the divorce there will be happiness. I have HOPE that DURING the divorce I will find happiness. I will find myself, and become stronger than I had ever imagined.
Alot different viewpoints I think. I actually got halfway done my home improvement project today and tonight. All that I need to do is paint.
So there is another question I have. I miss affection and closeness. There are a few girls definitely into me, and it's killing me not to be able to get close to them.
Is that the same paradigm of "escaping" as my WAW did when things were bad?
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
